Yesterday was Groundhog Day - the day the furry varmint comes out of his hole in the ground and determines if spring is coming soon, just by looking for his shadow. I've never really understood what the big deal is about this, but it seems to be a well-loved tradition.
When my son came home from school yesterday, he told me a sad thing happened.
"What was it?" I asked.
"They told us in school that the groundhog saw his shadow and that spring would be here soon."
I wrinkled my brows. "What's so sad about that?"
"It's a myth. It's sad that they keep spreading this silly story. When people find out it's not true, they're going to be sad. And then all the people who paid a lot of money to see the groundhog are going to be mad. It's a rip-off!"
Okay. So what do you think? Is Bubba right? Are people going to be upset when they learn the ground hog really can't predict when Spring is coming? Or should we just uphold the Groundhog Day tradition?
Before I go, it's time for the question of the month, hosted by Michael D'Agostino. This month's question, in time for Valentine's Day, is about love lost and found. I'm supposed to share a story about love I may have lost, or love I found.
Well, that's all a personal nature, and I really don't feel like sharing that. So, I'm going to tell you a story about someone else's love lost and found. I read this in a Chicken Soup for the Soul book, and thought it was the sweetest thing ever. And since I have a romantic heart, I'm going to share it for Valentines Day:
Winona was 19 when she met Edward. He was visiting his sister who was engaged to Winona's brother. They had a great chemistry, but unfortunately did not live near each other. It was agreed that they would write letters to keep in touch. (These were the days before the Internet.)
The correspondence lasted for many months. Then the letters from Edward stopped coming. Winona assumed Edward had lost interest.
Many years later, she married another man and had a family. She learned through her sister-in-law that Edward married a couple years after her.
Eventually, one of Edwards daughters had a wedding. Winona was also invited to the wedding. After 30 years, Edward and Winona were meeting again. The chemistry was still there, but the conversation was polite.
Ten years later, Edward's wife died. Winona sent him a sympathy card. Two years after that, Winona's husband died. Edward wrote to her. Once again, they were corresponding.
Edward wrote often. After six months of writing, he came to visit for two weeks. And then do you know what happened? He asked her to marry him!
She said, "yes." They got married and lived happily ever after.
In case you're wondering what happened with the original letter-writing, Edward's mother had destroyed Winona's letters because she didn't want to lose her youngest son. Forty-three years later, Winona found him.
Isn't that sweet?
Long time to wait for someone.
ReplyDeleteThe groundhog thing isn't real? I want my money back...
That was a very long time to wait for someone. I'm so glad they found each other, again!
DeleteIt always seems that winter lasts longer up north than what the groundhog preficts. Fortunately I live in Florida, so spring coming soon is true in my case.
ReplyDeleteI know all about Spring not coming fast enough!
DeleteThat's a sweet story, true love can't be stopped ♡
ReplyDeleteAs for the ground hog myth... most people probably know it's just for fun... I sure wouldn't pay money ;-)
I had no idea they had to pay to see the groundhog.
DeleteThat is a long while indeed, but good they found one another.
ReplyDeleteOnly good thing groundhog day ever gave us was the movie.
That was a silly movie!
DeleteAww, that's a wonderful story.
ReplyDeleteI thought it was sweet, too.
DeleteI want to know who pays money to see a ground hog, I might have a bridge to sell to them.
ReplyDeleteI have a few things I might want to sell them, too!
DeleteThat is awe full. why would a mother not let her son be loved by a girl. anyway they met again and that is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand some people. But I'm so glad they ended up together in the end.
DeleteI've never understood the whole shadow thing. Shouldn't a groundhog who saw his shadow be predicting an early spring? It seems backwards to me.
ReplyDeleteYou would think that the sun being out would mean an early spring. I don't understand it, either.
DeleteI think the groundhog tradition- like other customs such as the tooth fairy, the Easter Bunny- gives us something to look forward to.
ReplyDeleteYes. Traditions are hard to break.
DeleteThe groundhog thing is a fake? Call me disillusioned!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry I ruined you day. ;-)
DeleteMy little guy watching the groundhog on TV the other morning this year and he was excited when he learned they would be an early spring. I didn't tell him that the rodents are only accurate 37% of the time! It's funny how superstitious everyone still is even in the age of modern technology.
ReplyDeleteSweet story!
My kids used to buy into the groundhog thing, too.
DeleteThat's a sweet story for sure. Just right for Valentine's Day. About the ground hog,I think he's cute. The one in CT is named Chuckles. I think people treat the groundhog like the weatherman, which makes me smile. If we like what he says, we give him all kinds of credit. If not, we wonder how he keeps his job!
ReplyDeleteHaha! Yes. The groundhog is a lot like the weathermen.
DeleteSweet story š
ReplyDeleteGod kept her from having an awful mother-in-law. I can't possibly imagine what the other wife may have went through. Bittersweet.
ReplyDeleteYou have a good point!
DeleteGod kept her from having an awful mother-in-law. I can't possibly imagine what the other wife may have went through. Bittersweet.
ReplyDeleteI thought he didn't see his shadow this year:) Oh well. That story is crazy though, I would've gone ballistic on the mother. Maybe that's just me:) Thanks for stopping by Misha's blog today!:)
ReplyDeleteHi Mark. Thanks for stopping by. Like Shelly said, it was probably a blessing not to have a mother-in-law like that. Although, since the guy eventually got married, maybe the mother changed a bit.
DeleteJust for fun we might as well keep the groundhog...next to the Easter bunny, tooth fairy, Santa and all the rest.
ReplyDeleteSweet story! But naughty mother!
We sure love our furry creatures!
DeleteThat is sweet. I never believed in Groundhog Day. I just looked it up and the statistics for it aren't good.
ReplyDeleteGroundhogs are only right 30% of the time. That's not good at all!
DeleteGosh, what a touching romance! What's yours is yours, I guess...... xoxo
ReplyDeleteI thought it was sweet, too.
DeleteTwo wonderful stories Sherry.
ReplyDeleteYvonne.
Thanks, Yvonne.
DeleteIf people can handle the truth about Santa and the tooth fairy, they can also probably handle learning the true extent of a groundhog's spring-predicting abilities! :P
ReplyDeleteYes. You're right. But people sure like believing in these things.
DeleteBeautiful story.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Rajiv.
DeleteA wonderful story.
ReplyDeleteIt was meant to happen...they just didn't know when.
True love can't be stopped!
DeleteA wonderfully sweet story.
ReplyDeleteI agree! I love real life romances like this!
DeleteWhat a lovely story. As for the groundhog, he's about as accurate as the weather forecasters we have here, so... I've got no complaints.
ReplyDeleteThe groundhog has to figure out a new way to predict the arrival of spring.
DeleteA bit like finding out 'you know who' doesn't exist, I can well imagine those who may be disappointed to find out about the Groundhog. For me, a lovely story. A bit like our St Swithin who it is said if it rains on 'his' day (the 15th of July) means we will have rain for the next 40 days.
ReplyDeleteThat would be a lot of rain. Hopefully it doesn't rain often on St. Swithin's day.
DeleteFirst Santa and now the groundhog. What next? I'm with Bubba. Very discouraging.
ReplyDeleteLoved the sweet story ending.
I thought the story was very touching, too.
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